Anonymous asked: How many kg in a fat chance?
Slim to none.
Do not waste time worrying about being seen as rude, wrong, unknowledgeable, uninteresting, et al.
These worries that you have are assumptions on the thoughts of others. You may guilt yourself into thinking that they have thought such things without having done so. Would you have any control over those thoughts if they did? Nope.
Do not worry over that which is not in your control. This is not a call for blindly charging into life, but recognize where and when you can influence outcomes. If there is a part you cannot influence, it isn’t worth worrying about.
Be genuine in your being, to both yourself and others. Being genuine will allow you to receive honest opinion, forming relationships with clear intentions.
Each relationship begins with yourself. Start there.